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As a Catholic may I be cremated?
Yes. The Church's definite
preference is for burial of the
body. However, since 1963
cremation has been permitted,
although the cremated remains
were not allowed to be present
during the funeral mass. In 1997
the Vatican gave the bishops of
the United States permission to
allow the celebration of the
funeral mass with the cremated
remains present, provided the
local bishop permits it.
Do I need to ask permission to be cremated?
No, but it is a good idea to
discuss your reasons with your
pastor. For a funeral mass with
the cremated remains present,
the local bishop needs to give his
permission.
When should cremation take place?
The church strongly prefers that
cremation take place after the
full funeral liturgy with the body.
The presence of the body most
clearly brings to mind the life
and death of the person and
better expresses the values that
the Church affirms in its rites.
This is the body once washed in
Baptism, anointed with the oil of
salvation, and fed with the Bread
of Life. This is the body whose
hands clothed the poor and
embraced the sorrowing. ... Thus,
the Church's reverence and care for
the body grows out of reverence
and concern for the person whom
the Church now commends to the care of God. ... However, when
the circumstances prevent the presence of the body at the funeral
liturgy...it is appropriate that the cremated remains of the body be
present for the full course of the funeral rites, including the Vigil for
the Deceased, the Funeral Liturgy, and the Rite of Committal. The
funeral liturgy should always be celebrated in the church. (Reflections
on the Body, Cremation, and Catholic Funeral Rites, Bishop's
Committee on the Liturgy)
Is it necessary to embalm?
When cremation follows the funeral liturgy, embalming is
usually necessary. When cremation is to follow soon after
death, embalming is not necessary. Each state has it's own
regulations in this matter, but generally the rule is that a
deceased human body that is not buried or cremated within 24
or 48 hours is to be embalmed or refrigerated. However, simple
embalming and the use of a cremation casket need not involve
excessive costs.
Is it necessary to purchase a casket?
No, it is not necessary to purchase a casket for cremation. The
only thing required is a simple container in which the body can
be transported and placed in the cremation chamber. If you
choose to have the body present for Mass, with cremation to
follow, rental is an option. Many funeral directors offer regular
caskets for rent, as well as the special cremation or shell caskets
which you may purchase.
What is the proper container for cremated remains?
Appropriate, worthy containers (not necessarily expensive)
such as a classic urn are proper for the cremated remains. At
the present time the U.S. Bishop's Committee on the Liturgy
has determined only what is not a proper container. Although
jewelry, dishes, statuary and space capsules are examples of
designer containers now being offered, the are unacceptable in
Catholic funeral practices. It is also unacceptable to have
cremated remains made into jewelry, dishes and the like.
How are cremated remains transported?
Transportation of cremated remains is a matter of personal
choice. Individuals personally carrying a deceased person's
ashes will often have the added responsibility of packing and
transporting the urn. Using the principle of respect for the
body, you may wrap the container of cremated remains
with the possibility of sending it as accompanying
baggage or taking it along as carry-on luggage. Ask the
airline office or the state's Department of Public Health
for specific information about your region of travel
before preparing the cremated remains for transport by
air. Where no legal regulations exist regarding transport
of cremated remains, most cremationists ship cremated
remains in a standard shipping container by U.S. Mail
or other common carriers.
Must cremated remains be buried/entombed?
Yes. Respectful final disposition of cremated remains
involves interment or entombment. Burial options
include a family grave in a cemetery marked with a
traditional memorial stone or an urn garden, a special
section in a cemetery with small. pre-dug graves for urns.
What is a columbarium?
A common practice is the entombment of the cremated
remains in a columbarium. It is an arrangement of
niches, either in a mausoleum, a room or wall into
which an urn or other worthy vessel is placed for
permanent memorial.
May I scatter the cremated remains?
No. The practice of scattering cremated remains on the sea,
from the air, or on the ground, or keeping cremated remains
in the home of a relative or friend of the deceased are not
the reverent disposition that the Church requires. (Order of
Christian Funerals, Appendix II #417) Burial at sea of
cremated remains differ from scattering. An appropriate
and worthy container, heavy enough to be sent to its
final resting place, may be dropped into the sea. (See
Order of Christian Funerals, #406.4) Please consult your
local government for environmental regulations.
May anything be added to cremated remains such as the
cremated remains of other persons, pets, other objects?
The principle of respect for the cremated remains of a
decease Christian embraces the deeper belief in the
individuality of each baptized person before God.
Throughout history, the mingling of remains has never
been an accepted practice, except in extraordinary
circumstances.
Who decides if I am cremated?
In most cases you make the decision to be cremated.
However, your survivors may decide to have you cremated,
generally due to special family circumstances, but
rarely against your will.
How do I make my wishes known?
If you desire that your body be cremated you can make
those wishes known in your will and in documents
designed to help plan and prepare your funeral.
Must I honor my parent's or spouse's wish to cremate them?
Out of respect for loved ones, you will want to do all you
can to carry out the wishes of the deceased concerning
funeral services provided they are in keeping with
Church practice. Yet, you must always keep in mind the
therapeutic value to the family of celebrating the full
funeral liturgy with the body present. This may significantly
outweigh your reason for cremation before the
funeral liturgy.
What funeral rites are celebrated when a person is cremated?
The Church strongly prefers that the cremation take place
after the full funeral liturgy with the body. However,
when this is not possible, all the usual rites which are
celebrated with a body present may also be celebrated in
the presence of the cremated remains. In an appendix to the
Order of Christian Funerals, the United States bishops
have included prayers to be used when the cremated
remains of a loved one are present in the church. (Order of
Christian Funerals, Appendix II #432 - 438)
The following rituals may be celebrated:
- Prayers After Death
- Gathering in the Presence of the Body
- Vigil for the Deceased
- Funeral Mass or Funeral Liturgy Outside Mass
- Rite of Committal
During the liturgies, the cremated remains are treated
with the same dignity and respect as the body.
Prayers After Death
This ritual is used immediately after death. The presence
of the minister, the readings, and the prayers can be of
great comfort to the family. (Order of Christian Funerals,
#101 - 108)
Gathering in the Presence of the Body
This ritual can also be of great comfort to the family
members and friends. It allows for a time of simple
prayer and shared silence. (Order of Christian Funerals,
#109 - 118)
Vigil for the Deceased
If cremation has already taken place, friends and family
may still gather to pray. While it has been a tradition to
pray the rosary in some regions, the Vigil for the
Deceased is a Liturgy of the Word service, which
includes prayer for the deceased and recognition of his/
her Christian life. (Order of Christian Funerals, #54 - 97)
Funeral Mass
Should I schedule a funeral Mass before or after cremation?
The Church strongly prefers cremation after the Funeral
Mass. However, if it is not possible for the body to be
present at the Funeral Mass, an indult has been granted
by he Holy See which provides for the celebration of
the Mass with the cremated remains in the church.
Do I need permission to have cremated remains in church
(for the funeral liturgy)?
The indult granting the diocesan bishops of the United
States authority to permit a funeral liturgy in the
presence of cremated remains (in place of the body)
requires two things. First, the diocesan bishop must
authorize this practice for his diocese. Second, each
individual case requires permission. Your pastor will
need to seek permission for you.
What length of time is there between death, cremation, and
the funeral Mass?
The answer to this question depends on various factors,
just as in the case of the funerals with the body. The place of
death, the location of the crematory, scheduling a time
for cremation, the schedule at the parish church, and
other circumstances impact the timing. Once all
arrangements have been made, you should generally
allow at least one day between death and the celebration
of the funeral liturgy.
What happens at the Funeral Mass with cremated remains?
A journey which began at baptism comes to conclusion
as we enter into eternal life. Significant attention should
be given to the primary symbols of the Catholic funeral
liturgy, as stated in the Order of Christian Funerals and
its commentaries. The paschal candle and sprinkling
with holy water are primary symbols of baptism and
should be used during the funeral Mass. However, the
pall is not used. Photos and other mementos may be
used at the vigil, but are not appropriate for the Mass.
During the Mass, the cremated remains should be
treated with the same dignity and respect as the body.
They are to be sealed in a worthy vessel. They may be
carried in procession and/or placed on a table where the
coffin normally would be with the Easter candle nearby.
Rite of Committal
The body is always laid to rest with solemnity and
dignity. So too, the Order of Christians Funerals provides
for the interment of cremated remains. (Order of
Christian Funerals, Appendix II #438)
Questions Concerning Cremation, the Funeral Liturgy, and the Catholic Church: Federation of Diocesan Liturgical Commissions, 1999, Revised 2000.
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